How to treat people who are actively defensive?

What is new to help my daughter with many parents of your partner. They meeting a week ago after a fight a few months. My daughter wants to be good for your partner, but it is broken because parents treat it as the middle class and stuck. It is not, and finds it difficult to see how they behave aggressively in people who take the position that are as good as any striker and more to come "Look over your shoulder" on them. They are against anyone with any kind of education (My daughter has a degenerative). I think they are worried they lose their son in a different way of life, but instead of trying to understand what you have to criticize my daughter and all it represents. This meeting is in large part of their mandate, my daughter, her boyfriend and her baby have two-hour drive to see and a day that is not as convenient. My partner, the girl just wants to be a good child. What advice for them?

This is harsh reality is so sad when a game has to offer intelligence and transaction is rejected due to ignorance of from another. If your daughter and your partner love each other and their loyalty to each other on any other person. As a family, your future is yours. Must support, and perhaps take the initiative with their own parents. It is good that she has a father like you support. Best wishes.

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